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Just when I thought I was going to lose my mind…

Posted by on Nov 30, 2009 in Uncategorized | 20 comments

Ten ways in which the Universe was kind to me today:

1. Not only did Kai only wake up ONCE last night, he slept in until, wait for it, 8am!!!!! I got up before him, got dressed, made a cuppa. It was quite possibly the best morning of my life.

2. All that sleep meant Kai was in a KILLER mood. We laughed, we nearly wee’d ourselves with excitement riding the bus, we only had a handful of minor meltdowns at Playgroup and Kai made friends with a small girl with pretty hair. Toast was eaten, toys were shared. It was legendary.

3. When we got home Kai sat happily and drunk half a cup of moo moo milk (as opposed to mama milk). This is only the second time I’ve got him to drink any with out screaming and throwing it at me. If you were in the Midlands area and heard a Ahhhh sound that would have been my boobs sighing with relief. We’re down to two feeds in 24 hours people! TWO!

4. In one of those adorable toddler moments, every sip of Kai’s milk was accompanied by a “mmmm!”, a lip smack and a big grin. I’ve been giving him milk everyday and encouraging him to drink it with lots of “yum yum” and “ooh delicious!” – looks like he’s cottoned on the fact that moo moo milk = gooooood.

5. After drinking said milk we read a story (about diggers obviously), we drew the curtains and Kai lay down in his cot and went to sleep. Just like that. That is the first nap time without tears in about a fortnight.

6. While Kai was asleep I made two cups of tea. I’m not sure who the other one was for but I drank them both. With biscuits. I may make two cups more often.

7. The powers-that-be have decided to dig up a car park in the town centre. That means DIGGERS people. Diggers for probably all this week. This afternoon Kai spent 20 ecstatic minutes watching those diggers, who happened to be driven by friendly digger men who were happy to flash their lights and spin the diggers round and drop things from high up to make a better crash all for my rapt little boy. We will be back.

8. Instead of screaming all the way home, Kai sang. Loudly. It made everyone we walked past smile – not frown and look alarmed at the thrashing hysterical toddler that has been the norm for the last week or two.

9. We got back and Kai SAT. And gave me kisses, and giggled at me talking to him in a funny voice, and played with his cars beautifully till his Dad got home. I remembered how much I love him and decided I might not run way to New Zealand after all.

10. Bed time went without a whimper. Kai chose his fire engine book, we sniggered at the instruction to “feel the Fireman’s hard helmet”, and then we said “Night Night” and he lay down and went to sleep. Again.

Thank you Universe. Now why can’t everyday be like this??!

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  • http://www.littlestuff.co.uk/blog Laura

    OOhhhh…

    *gurt big beaming smile*

    Just a MAGIC post.

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  • http://thevervepath.com Crystal Gold

    this sounds like an absolutely WONDERFUL day!! Good for you!! Try to remember this on days that aren’t going so well so that you can stay positive. Here’s hoping you get many more just like this one!!!
    .-= Crystal Gold´s last blog ..Not Me Monday 11/30/09 =-.

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  • http://www.notsuchayummymummy.wordpress.com Emma @ Notsuchayummymummy

    Yay!! I’m so thrilled. Just when you’re feeling possibly the worst you’ve ever felt our gorgeous babies give us a perfect day like this which lifts us for weeks after. I had a bedtime like that last week. I’m still smiling! Long may it last!! x

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  • http://wahm-bam.blogspot.com Tasha (Coding Mamma)

    What a wonderful day. So very happy for you both!
    .-= Tasha (Coding Mamma)´s last blog ..Visiting potential schools – questions to ask =-.

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  • http://www.musingsofageriatricmummy.blogspot.com geriatric mummy

    What a fab day. Glad you both enjoyed it and long may it last :-)

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  • http://BumblingAlong.wordpress.com Bumbling

    Sounds fabulous!

    But the thing that made me giggle most was the fact that at the end of the posts it says:

    “Similar Posts:

    None found”.

    Let’s hope we see more of them in future. So happy for your happy day.

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  • http://www.capitalmom.blogspot.com Capital Mom

    Sleep. It makes all the difference. Can you order me one of those days too?

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  • http://lifeslightlyused.wordpress.com/ april

    Am crying now – that, THAT is a beautiful day – oh dear, all clucky now. So, so happy for you and Kai and so many memories of my little boy and just *sigh* That was a truely beautiful post. (my advice is to print it out, stick it on the wall near your bed, under the dining table or wherever you go to sob when life gets all to much to remember that you will have days like this again, many many of them in many many years. And it is all worth it :) (In fact I might do that to make me more tolerant of my older ones in a ‘see, look what they used to be like, and sometimes you get glimpses of that’.) Thank you for sharing such a perfect Mum-type day.
    .-= april´s last blog ..On the first day of Advent… =-.

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  • http://notdrowning.wordpress.com The NDM

    If every day was like that, then we wouldn’t appreciate them quite as much.

    If only, though, we could bottle such a day and have a little sniff of it when we have those really truly shit ones.
    .-= The NDM´s last blog ..Dress Rehearsal =-.

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  • http://www.strocel.com Amber

    I don’t know why every day can’t be like that. But I will intercede with the universe on your behalf that more of them will be.
    .-= Amber´s last blog ..Little Monkeys =-.

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  • http://www.usebefore.blogspot.com Vegemitevix

    Very cool. Well done. These days will become more and more frequent as Kai gets older. Promise (says the Mum of the 15, 13, 9 year olds!). Are you from NZ… with a name like Kai I did wonder!

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  • http://www.twitter.com/myautisticson Eric aka Myautisticson

    Hey Josie,
    Beautiful moment you had there. makes your heart melt and your head scream for joy. so happy for you you got to have some like that.
    My guess is that it might just be more like that now. I gotta feeling he is moving into level 2… LOL new diet/ more sleep/ more rest … it sorta help. hey, the bonus is that you feel better as well. heaven couldn’t be any better. :-)

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  • http://themadhouse-themadhouse.blogspot.com/ TheMadHouse

    Sounds like the perfect day, one which reminds you of everything that is great about being a mummy. We always need one of them everyone in a while to get us though all the crap!!!

    Parenting is Bi-Polar I say, either all great or all pap, no in between and I say cherish the good ones.
    .-= TheMadHouse´s last blog ..Dorma Bedding – Review =-.

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  • http://www.arewenearlythereyetmummy.com Laura

    That sounds like heaven … all of it!

    It ALWAYS throws me when my children sleep in. They both did it for the first time ever last week and rather than bask in it like you did I was disorientated and confused.

    Next time they do it (I am currently crossing my fingers) I’ll make the most of it!

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  • http://www.britsinbosnia.blogspot.com Brit In Bosnia

    Sleep, does wonders for them. Why won’t they listen to us when we say – you need to sleep now. It does make for a much nicer everything (including Mummy) all round.

    Yay Kai! More please!

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  • http://www.metropolitanmum.co.uk Metropolitan Mum

    Good for you! Well done, you! xx with hugs,
    MM
    .-= Metropolitan Mum´s last blog ..Malnourished Monday #3 =-.

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  • http://itsasmallworldafterallfamily.wordpress.com Victoria

    Children have this amazing ability to take you right to the very edge of your sanity then turn around and remind why you love them so much. It’s days like this that make it all worthwhile. Read this post next time its all going pearshaped.

    Last year the gas people dug up our road for months and months. Our neighbours were all complaining about how long it was taking, the inconvenience etc. I was just out there at all hours with my two small boys, watching diggers, chatting to digger men, inspecting giant pipes and stealing little handfuls of sand. I missed them when they went.
    .-= Victoria´s last blog ..O Bento =-.

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  • http://mwaonline.blogspot.com Mwa

    Josie! So good!!! That’s the kind of day you should be able to frame and put in an album so you can sit and look at it in years to come. Long may it last! x
    .-= Mwa´s last blog ..Dinosaur cake and a judgemental clown-god =-.

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  • http://suburbanmummyuk.com nat

    These days are the best. what the hell is that book you’re reading I think I might like to read that LOL

    I just wish these days came um everyday?

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  • http://babieswhobrunch.blogspot.com babieswhobrunch

    so, what’s your secret? how on earth did you pull off both those sleeps? we’re still one step forwarding and two step backing….
    .-= babieswhobrunch´s last blog ..Never rock a newborn and other ‘useful’ tips =-.

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